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Monday, April 7, 2014

A Difficult Conversation

Dear Tequila - 
I think we need to have a talk.
This is difficult to say, because I care about you, and I don't want there to be any animosity between us. 
However, I think you knew something like this was coming... 

I think we need to take some time apart. 
I need some space. 

Let me start by saying this isn't your fault. It's not you - it's me. 
We've had some really amazing times together. You always make me laugh and you give me confidence - I'm basically in a fog when I'm with you. 
Being with you always leads to adventure, from that time we went skinny dipping, to when we got lost in San Francisco, to this past Friday when I learned how to shoot a BB gun. 

But after we're together, I just don't feel good about myself. 
The next morning I feel sick to my stomach. 
I take responsibility for this too, since when I'm with you I can't get enough. I just want to drink it all in. But I need to work on my boundaries. 
I need to focus on me

I'll always love you, I just can't be with you right now. It's not good for me. 
Maybe after some time passes we can reunite. 

I know you'll always be a part of my life, you're very important to me. 
I've learned so much through my experiences with you. 
Without you I never would have discovered margaritas or learned to properly hydrate or the challenges of truth or dare Jenga.

But for now, please give me my space. Maybe you can call me again around Cinco de Mayo.
And if you could stop being on sale at Walgreens, that would really help me out too.

Lots of Love. 


  1. Haha it's totally true! Tequila and I need more time apart as well, but you're in Tucson and Guadalajara Grill just has such amazing margaritas....

    1. OMG, Alli, you are SO RIGHT! Their margaritas there are ammaaazzzinnngg! Next time you're in town you've gotta try out Calle Tepa! It's owned by the son of the Guadalajara woman and their Margaritas (and everything else) are amaazzzzinggg too! Thanks for the comment!! XOXO

    2. Oooo I'll have to check that out. I'll be down there for a friend's wedding at the end of May :) I might even try to make a Gaslight show! Sometimes I miss Tucson :P

    3. You absolutely should!!! Make an evening of it, dinner and a show! - It's right up the street from Gaslight! And definitely come see this show, it's one of my all time favorites! If you do come, be sure to come say hi! XO